same here, most techs will mark the nut and pinion (staked with chisel) and tighten back to the mark. some diffs have crush sleeves and can only be torqued once, if you tighen to much you mess up the pre-load, I do know a dana 70 requires 240ftlbs and it has a solid spacer, the AAM diffs could be the same.
rotational torque is done after you have set the pinion torque, and the carrier is removed from the diff.... again the reason most techs only mark and reinstal the nut
I cant count the number of pinion seals I've changed in the the past 25yrs, and never had a comeback,